If the Shoe Fits … It Must Have Backs

Posted September 19, 2013 by cathyso3
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A new proclamation was handed down from the Kingdom of School. ALL SHOES MUST HAVE BACKS. That is the new policy for everyday wear at school.

PROBLEM. I have only one pair of comfortable shoes that have backs.

SOLUTION. Time to shop.

When I was in college, I wore no less than two inch heels and walked all over campus in them. Easy peasy. I had one pair of shoes my college roommate referred to as witch shoes – shoes that looked like the ones worn by the Wicked Witch of the West. They were so comfortable I flew to my classes — no broom needed. During that era of my life, heels were my shoes of choice. No flats for me.

Fast forward to the present. I still wear heels, but they are much closer to the ground than in my younger years. On my shopping spree, I wandered around the shoe store, looking for some comfortable shoes with backs. I found lots of killer shoes – shoes that you could die in if you accidently tripped …

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Witch Shoes!

Of all the shoes I tried on, no shoes were appropriate for my school feet. What was missing? COMFORT! Men must design women’s shoes. They are gorgeous and fun, but OUCH! The last time I wore swanky, higher-than-normal heels was at my daughter’s wedding. There’s an old saying that goes, “My dogs are barking.” Well, that day my dogs weren’t barking; they were howling! Thank goodness I brought along fancy-dancy silver flip-flops to ease my aching feet. I noticed other women were barefoot or changed into more comfortable shoes as the wedding celebration continued – my daughter included. What I didn’t see were men doing the same thing. Why not? Look at men’s shoes. Black, brown, cordovan. Lace-up or loafers. Good sturdy flat-on-the-ground shoes. No reason for their feet to be screaming for mercy!

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Oh, what we women do to for that smashing, sophisticated look!

I’m still on the prowl for good-looking comfortable shoes — with backs. Maybe I’ll just duct tape a back onto my backless shoes. Now that’s classy!

Try these books on for size!.

Shoe-la-la! written by Karen Beaumont and illustrated by LeUyen Phama picture book (Scholastic Press, 2011)

Women from the Ankle Down:  The Story of Shoes and How They Define Us written by Rachelle Bergstein (Harper, 2012)


Wedding Tales

Posted September 12, 2013 by cathyso3
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I’m ba-a-a-ck!

The past few weeks have been busy, busy, busy. My lovely daughter got married — a marriage made in heaven. For those of you who read my last blog and are wondering where the wedding reception took place, the answer is the library. It wasn’t just any library, mind you. It was the Boston Public Library. If you’ve never been there, it’s a must-see architectural treasure.

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As mother of the bride, you must indulge me as I blog and blab about the special day.

The ceremony took place at Our Lady of Victories Church, a French National Church, hidden on a narrow side street. It’s a charming old church, dedicated in 1886, and it has a magnificent organ that fills every nook and cranny of the interior with heavenly music.

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The bride was beautiful. The groom was beautiful. The ceremony was beautiful. Tears of happiness flowed like the enchanting courtyard fountain at the Boston Public Library.

Before the reception, pictures were taken in historical spots around Boston – an Art Deco style building,

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Trinity Church, the “T” – Boston’s subway system, and the Public Garden.


Then it was on to the reception at the library. As I mentioned before, this building is amazing.

An old postcard of the Boston Public Library

An old postcard of the Boston Public Library

Inside the building you’ll find a grand marble staircase, balconies made of limestone, marble pillars, an enclosed courtyard with a fountain, murals painted by famous artists, collections of rare books, manuscripts, maps, musical scores, prints, and much more.

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Entry to the Library



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Bates Hall


Book from 1920 that explains everything you want to know about the rooms in the library.

The cocktail hour took place in the courtyard with its picturesque fountain. The courtyard was a special place for the bride and groom. Not only did they first express their love for one another there, but they also got engaged there.


The Boston Public Library and Interior Courtyard

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X Marks the Engagement Spot

Dining was in The Popular Reading Room. It was a gourmet’s delight, and afterward, we danced the evening away. The bride and groom glowed the entire day.

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Popular Reading Room


At the end of the evening before they escaped through a secret door among the stacks of books, the groom played guitar and sang to the bride.


It was a fairy tale wedding – one that I will hold close to my heart.

Okay, my blogging and blabbing are done, but the bride and groom have only just begun. I raise my (coffee) cup to them for a long and happy life together!









Summer Blog and Wedding Break

Posted August 15, 2013 by cathyso3
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We interrupt this blog for breaking news. “Humor Me” is taking a summer blog break so I can help tie up wedding details for my daughter’s wedding and make sure the knot is perfectly tied. It’s sure to be a storybook wedding! “Humor Me” will return September 12th with fabulous details from the wedding. See you then!


Can you guess where the wedding is taking place?

Harvesting a Great Book with Pat Zietlow Miller

Posted August 8, 2013 by cathyso3
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It’s August. The garden is overflowing with ripe tomatoes, green peppers, cucumbers, and squash. It’s time to harvest the crop. In among those tasty treats, there might be a seed of a great story. Pat Zietlow Miller discovered a creative seed in a butternut squash and let it grow into a story beyond compare.


Sophie’s Squash is Pat Zietlow Miller’s debut picture book. When Sophie’s mom purchases a butternut squash at the farmer’s market, it doesn’t become dinner as she expected. Sophie draws a face on the squash, names it Bernice, and the two become inseparable friends. No matter how hard her parents try, they can’t convince Sophie to give up Bernice. When the squash begins to rot, Sophie realizes Bernice will not last forever. Sophie does what she needs to do with Bernice and is rewarded with a delightful surprise come spring. Anne Wilsdorf’s charming ink and watercolor illustrations and playful end pages combine with Miller’s appealing story to produce a book worth adding to your collection.

Pat Zietlow Miller is a very talented writer and has worked diligently to achieve her goals. She was gracious enough to “Humor Me” and answer some burning questions I had for her.

Pat, Sophie’s Squash is your debut picture book. You’ve received starred reviews from Kirkus, Publishers Weekly, School Library Journal, and Booklist. Can you share some of your emotions after seeing these fabulous reviews?

I was a mixture of thrilled and stunned. Thrilled, because I’d always hoped other people would like Sophie and think she was worthy of attention. And, stunned, because it’s a way more positive response than I ever anticipated.

I’ve wanted to be an author for so long that just having the book out and looking as lovely as it does would have been enough. That was always my goal. I never really thought about what would happen after that. So getting the stars and nice comments and seeing which parts the reviewers especially liked was something happy I hadn’t expected.

It’s also been a little humbling because there are many books I adore that haven’t gotten starred reviews, so I know how subjective the process is. I feel disproportionately fortunate.

How did you come up with the idea for your book?

When my youngest daughter was small, I took her grocery shopping and put a butternut squash in the cart. By the time we got to the checkout, she was rocking it in her arms, like a baby. When we got home, she drew a face on it and carried it everywhere.

I took that idea, expanded it greatly, and there was the beginning the book.

Have you always wanted to write for children?

Yes. I wrote my first draft of a children’s story when I was in college. But I had no idea what to do with it and hung on to it for years, thinking, “Someday, I’ll pursue this.” But jobs and life got in the way, and I didn’t seriously think about writing for children again until I was 39. That’s when I realized two things:

  1. If I didn’t at least try to become a published author, I was going to regret it when I was 80.
  2. That no editor from New York was ever going to call me and ask me to write a children’s book. If I wanted to be an author, I was going to have to sit down and actually … you know … write a manuscript.

Once I realized those two things, my next steps became pretty obvious. (And, yes, I still have that manuscript draft from college.)

Who are some of your favorite children’s authors and illustrators?

There are so many that making a list could get me into trouble, but I adore picture book writers Kari Best, Dori Chaconas, Kelly DiPucchio, Jill Esbaum, Candace Fleming, Mem Fox, Kevin Henkes, Mary Lyn Ray, Jacqui Robbins, Liz Garton Scanlon and Judith Viorst. Outside the picture book realm, I also love anything by Sharon Creech, Kate DiCamillo, John Green, David Levithan, Ellen Raskin and Gary Schmidt. Oh, and I should mention J.K. Rowling, because I am a total Harry Potter geek. And Ann Brashares, because I love The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.

And, I admire all illustrators because I can’t draw at all. Anne Wilsdorf did a spectacular job bringing Sophie and Bernice to life and Jill McElmurry and Eliza Wheeler, who are working on future books of mine, are amazingly talented, as well.

Has any particular book influenced you and your writing career?

No one book has influenced me, but authors who have are Erma Bombeck, Nora Ephron and Judith Viorst. That probably sounds like an odd mix, but I read them all when I was a middle schooler, and I remember just being floored by how well they used words. Sometimes I’d honestly be so overwhelmed by how well they shared a thought or turned a phrase that I’d have to put the book down for a moment and just regroup.

They showed me what was possible, and I spent lots of time trying to write like they did. And, ultimately, that helped me figure out how to sound like myself.

You have three more picture books coming out, Sharing the Bread with Schwartz & Wade in Fall of 2015, The Quickest Kid in Clarksville with Chronicle in 2015, and Wherever You Go with Little, Brown in 2015. Besides writing, you also have a full-time job, a husband, and two children. How do you balance everything?

I run after whatever fire is most out of control at the moment. Once I stomp out those flames, I move on to the next.

But really, I’m fairly good at concentrating on whatever task I’m handling at the moment. When I’m at work, I’m working. When I’m writing, I’m writing. And some things I’ve just given up on. My house is not clean, my garden is overgrown, I watch very little TV and I don’t have much of a social life. But that’s OK, because usually I’d rather be writing.

What advice would you give an aspiring writer?

  1. Dedicate time to achieving your goal. You can spend that time reading, or analyzing why books you like worked, or writing your next book. As I learned, merely wishing won’t get you anywhere.
  2. Expect your book to need a ridiculous amount of editing and revising before it’s ready to submit. Expect it to need even more once it sells. Realize that even when you think your book is absolutely, positively done, in all likelihood, it isn’t I’ve been amazed at how much better my books have gotten long after I thought they were complete.
  3. Don’t over-react to rejection. It’s just part of the process, and it’s not personal. Even my books that sold were rejected many, many times. Just hang in there, always be open to making your book better, and move forward.

What’s next for you, Pat?

I have editing to do on one my picture books that sold, and I have two others out on submission. Plus, I’m working on a very rough first draft to see if it has the potential to turn into something more. And, I have a list of new books that I can’t wait to read.

Congratulations, Pat, on your charming book and thank you for sharing your time and providing some great writing advice for all of us.

You can find Pat at her blog, READ, WRITE, REPEAT http://www.patzietlowmiller.com   and on Twitter:  @PatZMiller

If you’re in the Madison, WI area on Saturday, August 17 at 1:00 p.m., don’t miss the book launch party for Sophie’s Squash at:

Barnes and Noble

7433 Mineral Point Road

Madison, WI

(Near West Towne Mall)

There will be crafts, a prize drawing, snacks, and Pat will be reading and signing her book!

Below are some excerpts from the starred reviews Sophie’s Squash has received.

Kirkus: “From her bouncy braids to her red shoes, Sophie’s vibrant, determined nature shines forth charmingly.”

Publishers Weekly:  “Debut author Miller takes the idea of playing with one’s food to another level in this sensitive but funny story about a girl’s affection for a squash.”

School Library Journal:  “With lessons on life, love, and vegetable gardening, this tale will be cherished by children, and their parents will be happy to read it to them often.”

Booklist:  “In a perfect blend of story and art, the humorous watercolor-and-ink illustrations are bursting with color and energy on every page …”


Posted August 1, 2013 by cathyso3
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The Boxcar Children written by Gertrude Chandler Warner was the book that put me on the road to reading. I fell in love with Henry, Jessie, Violet, and Benny. I wanted to live in a boxcar and have the same adventures as the Alden children. Warner’s writing and appealing characters motivated me to read her subsequent books and develop a fondness for mysteries.

When I learned Patricia MacLachlan was writing a prequel to the original Boxcar Children, I was a bit hesitant. Patricia MacLachlan is a phenomenal writer, and if anyone could do the job she would be the one to do it. But would she stay true to Gertrude Chandler Warner’s original story and characters?


I turned to the first page of MacLachlan’s prequel. I was immediately transported back to my childhood. Patricia MacLachlan maintained the same storytelling magic as Gertrude Chandler Warner. The Boxcar Children Beginning immerses the reader into a simpler time. It entertains. It makes you laugh. It makes you cry. The story demonstrates kindness, family values, and sucks you into the Alden family’s adventures. Patricia MacLachlan didn’t disappoint. Her prequel is a winner!

This is a perfect book to read aloud with the family. It lends itself to discussions about past history, The Great Depression, and work ethic. It’s quality summer reading!

Showered With Happiness

Posted July 25, 2013 by cathyso3
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We’re still in wedding mode. This past weekend we showered our daughter, Beth. Of all the thoughtful and wonderful gifts she received, the one that stole her heart was from her future mother-in-law.

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A Boston Terrier was her favorite gift. She and her fiancé, Brian, have been researching this breed for months. It’s something they want to add to their family. The Boston Terrier given to her is very versatile. It’s not only a cuddly animal, but it’s also a purse! Collecting purses is another of Beth’s passions. Brian’s mom certainly knows our daughter!

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If you love Boston Terriers, here’s a book that Beth and Brian recommend.

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Boston Terriers written by Susan Bulanda with photographs and illustrations by Michele Earle-Bridges (Barron’s Educational Series, Inc., 2012)

WIP – Wedding In Progress

Posted July 18, 2013 by cathyso3
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Besides reading and writing and blogging and tweeting about children’s books, I do have another life. This summer my other life has been consumed with preparations for our daughter’s wedding, which is rapidly approaching. She’s on the east coast. We’re in the middle. Distance makes for challenges, but my husband and I are no slouches. We’re in it until the last guest leaves the reception and the last check is signed.

So far I’ve learned these things about wedding planning:

Keep smiling.

No matter how old they get, your children still do not listen to you.

Money is no object from your child’s point of view.

It’s much easier to plan a wedding when you are both in the same geographical area.

Frequent and calm communication helps to clarify issues at hand.

When a request is made, don’t ask questions, just do it. It makes life easier.

Our latest assignment from east coast was to find specific pictures for a book the future bride and groom are going to create for guests to sign. These pictures were needed ASAP. What else is new?

The Requester

The Requester

So the obedient mother and father trudged down to the basement and pulled a million photo albums off the shelves and hauled them upstairs to the comfort of the living room. Divide and conquer was the motto. “The list” of required photos was at our fingertips. From birth pictures to present times, my husband and I flipped through the albums in record time. It was like looking at time-lapse photography of seeds growing to maturity. Our daughter was a beautiful flower. We were withering weeds! By the time we got through all the albums and found the designated pictures, we were spent.

We looked at the mess we had created. We agreed it was time to weed and condense albums – tomorrow. Tomorrow came and went.  The road to the basement is paved with good intentions! And those good intention albums ended up right back on the shelves. Out of sight, out of mind.

The important thing is that we completed the task at hand, and we still hold our daughter and her fiancé dear to our hearts.

What’s next on our to-do list? I’ll be sure to let you know.

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